Are You a Bulldozer, a Diplomat, or a Ghost? | How to Win at Marriage

Free Quiz · Joe Dillon

Are You a Bulldozer, a Diplomat, or a Ghost?

Most couples think their arguments are about money, schedules, or who forgot to take out the trash. They're not. Find out what's really going on in three minutes.

14 Questions ~3 Minutes No Wrong Answers

This quiz was built by Joe Dillon, a professional negotiator and divorce mediator who has spent nearly two decades helping more than 1,000 couples through divorce. It reveals the negotiation style you're bringing into your marriage, for better or worse.

The quiz draws on the same ideas behind Joe's upcoming book, How to Win at Marriage: A Divorce Mediator’s Guide to Staying Together, coming Fall 2027.

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"They didn't fail their marriage because they stopped loving each other. They failed because nobody ever taught either of them how to have a productive conversation that ends with concrete results."
From How to Win at Marriage

What do you do with this?

Knowing your style is step one. How to Win at Marriage gives you the tools to do something about it.

It's practical, plain-spoken, and built on real couple stories, with zero therapy-speak and enough humor to make the hard parts land a little easier. The book arrives Fall 2027.

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